When it comes to scattering the ashes of a loved one, many questions can arise. This support guide is designed to provide clear answers and help you navigate the process with confidence and respect.

Where Can You Scatter Ashes?

In the UK, you have a wide range of options for scattering ashes in meaningful locations. Whether it’s a garden of remembrance, a serene green space, over water, or on private land, the choice is deeply personal. Some individuals may have expressed a preference for where they’d like their ashes to be scattered, while others may not have left specific instructions. If desired, ashes can also be scattered in multiple places.

Examples of Common Locations for Scattering Ashes:

• Churchyards, cemeteries, or natural burial grounds
• Over the sea, rivers, or other bodies of water
• National parks or public spaces
• Private land such as back gardens, sports grounds, or farmland

Do You Need Permission to Scatter Ashes?

In the UK, there are no strict laws prohibiting the scattering of ashes, but obtaining permission from the landowner is crucial. If you wish to scatter ashes on your own property or over a body of water, no special permissions are required. However, when it comes to public or private land owned by others—such as parks, beaches, or farmland—permission from the landowner is necessary. The same applies to churchyards and other religious grounds.
For scattering ashes over rivers or at sea, while landowner permission isn’t needed, it’s advisable to consult environmental guidelines to ensure compliance with any relevant regulations.

Scattering Ashes in Cemeteries or on Family Graves

Not all cemeteries allow ashes to be scattered, so it’s important to check with the specific cemetery for their policies. If you own a plot, you should generally be allowed to scatter ashes on a family grave. Your funeral director can assist with making the necessary arrangements. Additionally, some crematoriums and cemeteries have designated areas for scattering ashes.

Scattering Ashes in Public Parks or Green Spaces

If you wish to scatter ashes in a public park or green space, you’ll need to obtain permission from the local council. Most councils and organisations like the National Trust are amenable to such requests, provided environmental guidelines are followed.

Scattering Ashes at Sea or in Rivers

For many, particularly in certain religious traditions such as Sikhism, scattering ashes in a flowing body of water is a common practice. While you don’t need landowner permission, it’s important to consider environmental regulations, such as ensuring the location is not near a fishery, marina, or within 1km upstream of a water plant or reservoir. Choosing a calm day can also help ensure that ashes don’t drift into unintended areas.

Tips for Scattering Ashes

When scattering ashes, it’s essential to follow UK regulations and environmental guidelines to ensure the process is respectful and mindful of others. Here are some tips:

• Use a ‘scatter tube’ or similar container to help distribute the ashes.
• Always seek permission from the landowner.
• Choose a secluded area, away from main pathways and busy areas.
• Be mindful of the environment—avoid protected conservation areas and refrain from disturbing the ground.
• Avoid busy times, such as Bank Holidays, and windy days to prevent ashes from being carried to unintended places.
• If scattering ashes from a cliff-top, ensure no one is below before proceeding.
• Refrain from scattering ashes where animals are grazing unless approved by the landowner.
• Avoid placing memorials like benches or plaques unless permission is granted.

Scattering Ashes on Plants or Flowers

Marking the spot where you scatter ashes with a tree or rosebush is a thoughtful gesture, but keep in mind that the acidity in ashes can harm the soil and affect plant growth. To mitigate this, consider adding a special compost mix that neutralises the ashes, making it easier for plants to thrive.

Holding a Scattering Ashes Ceremony

A scattering ashes ceremony can be a meaningful way to honour your loved one. Whether it’s a few words, a prayer, a poem, or a favourite song, the moment is personal and can provide comfort. This ceremony offers a chance to reflect on memories and celebrate the life of the person who has passed.

If you have questions or need assistance with planning the scattering of ashes, your local funeral home is a valuable resource. They can provide advice and help with arrangements, ensuring that the process is handled with care and respect. Arranging a funeral through The Farewell Guide allows you to find your local funeral home through our search and compare tool for over 6,000 funeral directors. You can also make a bespoke funeral plan, detailing instructions regarding your ashes, and much more. 

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